Much of life has two sides,that's why there are so many of those old sayings "Two sides to every story", "double-edged sword", "every cloud has a silver lining" etc. It struck me again yesterday after a chance comment from Stumpy in the car journey home from school.
Yes I said car, I know I should walk, but the hills and with a double buggy, let's just say I've noticed the calves on the mothers that walk up that hill, I'll leave the rest to imagination.
As we reached the top of the hill on the way home the vista opens up from woodland to a big open grassy scene where a kind, benevolent opencast mine contractor has planted a thousand trees around a massive hole in the ground and called it a community park. I digress, it was a reasonable day, bit of blue sky, pleasant enough, Stumpy suddenly says "That cloud looks like King Cooper's
Doomship".
"Which cloud?" I quickly asked trying to buy some time as I mentally flicked through my list of kids TV shows, characters
et al not wanting to be caught out.
"That one, the long thin one" came the reply in no time.
By this time I still had no clue as to who King Cooper was and why he had a
Doomship so in desperation I attempted a guess,
" Is he a
baddy from Ben Ten?"
Silence, a look and my shame was out, it was now obvious to my six year old I didn't have the first idea who King Cooper was. I hung my head, the all important act of male bonding lost somewhere between the generation's, ripped on the cutting edge of ever changing children's culture.
Then it dawned on me, King Cooper and the inner workings of his
Doomship might not be my specialist subject on Mastermind but there was a positive from this. My boy was seeing things in the sky, he was creating pictures in the clouds. Joy, all those passing references to dragons and fish and bearded ladies hadn't fallen on deaf ears, we have a bond, we have something to hold onto. When in the future, things have got a bit heated, when we've had words then hopefully I can break the ice, casually mention that I saw a cloud today, it was the just like
Thunderbird Two.